Friendship vs. Acquaintanceship

Distance takes its toll.  I really miss my Connecticut friends and the wonderful times we spent together.  We forged a special bond with each which we treasure beyond measure.

But it's not the same here.  We've met such wonderful people but they are not exactly the same kind of friends.  They are lovely acquaintances.  We met through a common organization and do things together because of the organization.  'Socializing' or just getting together as friends do is not something that occurs.

Life doesn't often offer the chance to create a family of friends.  We've lived around the country and in almost all the places we've lived we met people whose friendships we cherish.  Most of those 'family of friends friendships' have lasted for decades.  As we moved from place to place it was unbearably difficult to leave people we had come to love.  I can count on both my hands who these people are.  And we've been fortunate to have that many.  

The problem is they are not here.  Yet the closeness that we once shared has not been broken by the thousands of miles that separate us now. But they are not here, not close by, not close enough to share holidays, activities, trips, life.  Sometimes I wish I could freeze the picture I carry in my mind and heart of those days. 

Reasons for recovery

When one comes close to death and recovers as well as Ethan has, I have to believe that all the loving thoughts, prayers and good wishes had something to do with it, notwithstanding the excellent medical care and physical therapy he has been getting.  On this day of our 46th anniversary, the best gift is not the length of a very loving marriage to a man I just adore and who continues to make my heart soar, but to the gift of Ethan's recovery, to the gift of caring, support and love from Ethan's friends and the knowledge that he is safe and has retained his wonderful sense of humor.

To all Ethan's friends and our relatives and friends, a heartfelt thank you for your healing energy, thoughts and help.  You are truly part of our family circle.  We love you all.